Monday, March 12, 2012

Relationships



Relationships are indefinable... 


There is no perfect way to begin or end one. 


All people have different characters, views, opinions, backgrounds, beliefs and needs...the dynamics of being in a relationship are as devastating as they are passionate. 


Life is a series of emotions...Relationships are part of the series...


Expectations, disappointments, heartbreak...passion, love, contentment...they are all part of being in a relationship...and if you've experienced one or all of them, it truly doesn't matter. It doesn't mean your time with that person had failed, and it doesn't mean that it was perfect. 


A relationship is a learning curb...you take what you learned and use it...you use what you learn to find the right, not perfect, but right person to relate to. 


Guard your heart, yes...but "hide" your heart? NO. You were given a heart for a reason...TO USE IT...


Use it to pump life into your relationships! Whether they are 'meant to be', or not. There is no perfect relationship. 


There is only the "right" one. 

Every girl wants their "soul mate" or her "prince charming"...


Every girl wants what her heart desires...and no one should give up that dream 


Because your dreams are there for a reason...


They are there to be chased. 
They are there to be sought after.


However, don't become a slave to your magnified dreams...


Dreams aren't reality...and some dreams are nightmares...


While some, are just influenced by others. 


To fully know your true desires, let yourself shine through...


Don't think you aren't enough. 


Don't change yourself. 


Don't push your heart to beat faster when it's not ready to. 


Remind yourself that you ARE enough...


You weren't created with your future partner attached to you...you were born with a heart, soul and mind...a heart to guide you, a soul to define you, and a mind to think for itself...


Seek advice from people who know, not from people who guess...


Don't look for a relationship...look for an emotional connection. 


Don't dive into any decisions...and don't let others influence your decisions...your feelings are just that - YOURS. 


Try not to spend time obsessing over your future relationships...leave them there - in the future...


When you're ready for them, they will happen... 


Think of it this way...If you rush to drink a hot drink it will burn you...but if you wait till it's ready to drink, it will be just right...


Don't over think... 
Trust your heart...
Even if you end up heartbroken... 
Don't be afraid to live your life...Without fear, Without regret...


Because relationships are God's gift...


Accept the gift...
Open it...
And use it wisely. 











4 comments:

  1. Going through a certain phase...and wow found this! All I wanna say is...THANK YOU..your words gave me some hope :)

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  2. Loved the discription!

    -Areeba!

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  3. Deep :)
    nice advice!

    C

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